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| 守著陽光守著妳 | |
| 話題篇 | |
| 少女心事知多少 | |
| 獨白篇 | |
| 有時…… | |
| 真愛分享 | |
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| 黑，卻是秀美 | |
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| 家庭電影院 | |
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| 健康資訊站 | |
| 親愛的，別加班了！ | |
| 一笑抵萬金 | |
| 臉皮這麼厚？ | |
家有青春女．獨白篇
有時⋯⋯
Sometimes It's Hard To Be A Teenage Girl
█Sandra Chang
有時，我會對著少女雜誌的 面人物自慚形穢： Sometimes I get bummed out looking at cover girls:
「我不夠漂亮，不夠苗條。」 "I'm not pretty enough. Not thin enough."
「我得穿對衣服，趕上最新流行。」 "Need to wear the right clothes and the latest fashions."
我希望能對自己的外表感到滿意。 I wish I could just feel OK about the way I look.
有時，我很快樂，且不在乎別人怎麼指指點點。 Sometimes I'm happy, and I don't care what others think.
但有些時候，我卻很容易受同儕影響。 Other times, I'm easily influenced by my peers.
當別人不喜歡我，我就很難過， And I feel bad about myself when others don't like me,
或自覺不夠好。 Or make me feel that I'm not good enough.
有時，我喜歡跟大夥兒打成一片， Sometimes I want to be with others,
但有時我只想獨處。 But sometimes I really want to be alone.
連我自己都不了解自己， I don't even understand myself
因為我的心情變化莫測。 Since my mood changes all the time.
有時我努力表現優秀、聽話乖巧， Sometimes I try hard to excel and obey,
但許多時候我乾脆放棄， But many times I just give up,
因為標準實在太高， 'Cause the standards are so high
我父母怎麼樣也不會滿意的。 And my parents don't seem completely pleased anyway.
有時，我都快受不了了， Sometimes I feel overwhelmed
因為我承受太大壓力── Cause I'm under so much pressure-
得尋找正確的方向，得交到對的朋友， Gotta look the right way, hang out with the right people,
得維持好的成績，得申請到一流的大學。 Keep up the grades and get into the right college.
有時，我很想忘掉一切重負， Sometimes I want to forget all the pressures,
所以我拼命講電話、逛商場、寫電子郵件、 So I talk on the phone, go shopping, email,
上網、看電視或聽音樂⋯⋯ Surf the net, watch TV, or listen to music...
只要能逃離我自己的生活。 Anything to escape my own life.
有時，我不知道該怎麼辦， Sometimes I don't know what to do
當我的男朋友很想跟我共嚐禁果。 When my boyfriend pushes me to have sex;
我一直拒絕，但他堅持我若愛他，就要給他。 I keep saying "no" but he insists that I should if I love him.
但我深知，「真愛要等待」。 Yet I know from my heart, "true love waits".
有時，我跟朋友一起喝酒或抽煙， Sometimes, I'll drink with friends or smoke a joint
只為了麻醉自己、放鬆自己。 Just to numb out the stress and relax.
我知道那樣子不好，但它們能讓我覺得好過些， I know it's bad, but it makes me feel better
而且那是我最容易做到的事。 And it's the easiest thing to do.
有時，我希望成人願意試著瞭解我， Sometimes I wish that an adult would try to understand me
而不是一天到晚嘮叨、責罵或批評。 Without nagging or blaming or criticizing.
尤其當生活看來充滿艱難和困惑， Especially when life seems so hard and confusing,
我提醒自己要禱告。 I remind myself to pray.
有時我心想，上帝是否聽見我的禱告， Sometimes I wonder if God hears me,
或者祂就像我父母，忙得沒時間理我？ Or if He's too busy for me like my parents are;
但即使我和父母在家裏吵吵鬧鬧， Even though we fight at home,
我知道爸媽愛我，為我付出許多許多。 I know my parents love me and put up with a lot from me.
有時，我就像個被寵壞的小女孩， Sometimes I act like a spoiled brat;
有人說那就是青春期， People say it's just puberty
所以我只是個情緒起伏不定的十幾歲少女。 And that I'm a normal teenage girl with her moods.
我期盼我能脫胎換骨長大成熟──而且要儘快！ I hope I'll grow out of it sometime-soon!
